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Different levels of thought
Taking the example of someone who becomes angry because of the way some 'idiot' has behaved on the road or anywhere else, the anger could be thought of as being at one level of thinking or response. This anger may then manifest itself as dangerous driving behaviour. To help people to 'move on' you need to tackle the problem on a different level - to help them to think differently. Trying to tackle the anger directly, perhaps by saying something like "Don't be angry" usually won't work; this is because you are trying to solve the problem on the same level of thinking that it occurs; an effective cure will need to tackle a higher level of thinking.
You may already have noticed the contradiction in these statements. At the lowest level we have a person whose behaviour is 'driving angrily', while at the top level we have a person whose self-identity is one of 'safe driver'. The simple interventions described above could help the angry driver to change the way he/she thinks. The theory of levels of thought (Neurological Levels) was first described in the way shown below by expert NLP developer, Robert Dilts. His theory suggests that we all operate at the following levels of thought:
The fixes suggested above are quick and simple ways of tackling a problem; they work very well in some cases and have been used here to demonstrate the principles involved. However, if a driver believes that getting angry doesn't affect his/her ability to drive safely, then other methods may be needed to change the situation. Inevitably, some people may need retraining or a course in anger management to resolve their problems. Hopefully, this article has offered you an idea of how NLP might be useful to help drivers to think again about some of their habits; having said this, it draws on only a small part of the field NLP as a whole. If you would like to find out more there is lots of stuff on the internet or at your local bookstore. You can also follow these related links on this site... |
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